hi, welcome to

this is a podcast that’s a safe space for curiosity and conversation.

Pillow Talk
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i’m your host, Haven!

today I'm curious about

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season 3: new episodes every other monday

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meet me (haven) —

I’ve always been a very curious person. I was the kid who would ditch my family and go to the front of the tour group to learn all I could from the guide. Now I’ve been married to my high school sweetheart for 12 years and have two kids who have morphed my Instagram into their own personal fan account page but that quest to learn never went away. Most recently I enjoy taking popular topics and dissecting them over a matcha latte with my girlfriends but now I just record those conversations in podcast form!

here’s what i’m about

I love to discuss anything & everything. Topics range from relationships (is it normal to fight over how forks go in a dishwasher every day of my life?), parenting (how can I "gentle parent" while being physically assaulted by my toddler?), body image (are we botoxing now??) and spirituality (do I still hold my same beliefs I did 10 years ago?) all are on the table to be looked at, explored, turned over, and welcomed. I won't necessarily find the answers, but truly believe the questions hold the power.

introducing:

PillowTalk

created with you in mind —

In the chaos of everyday life, meaningful conversations can slip away. PillowTalk is an e-course led by Haven & Aaron Weits and their own marriage counselor, Dr. Jonathan Cude, for couples who want to deepen their relationship. Through focused discussions and practical activities, you’ll uncover thoughts and feelings that often go unspoken, bringing you closer. Whether you’re just starting out or have been together for years, PillowTalk provides the tools to enhance your connection — because sometimes, all you need is a good conversation. And yes, it’s cheaper than therapy!

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let’s be besties IRL —

here are some dates for events i’ll be at and fun things coming up, i’d love to see you there!


02/14/25


6/1/25


next Haven! book club →

6/24/25